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Do you want to get your ex back? If you do, then the best way to proceed is probably the opposite of what you want to do. The more you hang on, the more sure they will be that they don’t want anything to do with you. The best way to get your ex back is also the best way for you to get over your ex. First you have to let go completely. Just let them go. Bury yourself in things to do. See anyone you can. Go to parties. Have fun! Although you may be worried that they aren’t paying attention, you have to go on with other things in your life. Most importantly, do not call your ex. That phone is not your friend right now. If you have the urge to call your ex get up and do something else, call some one else. Call your mother or grandmother, organize your bookshelf. Just don’t call them. Do these things until they are real. You may even find that you don’t want your ex back as much as you did before. However if you do then arrange to meet your ex after you have established a happy and secure life without them. If the two of you are still attracted to each other you may be able to patch things up. Do not carry the baggage into the new relationship. If you get back together you have to forgive them completely for leaving. Don’t hold a grudge.